Why Trying Harder Makes Shy Bladder Worse
Almost everyone with shy bladder has tried the obvious thing. You stand there and you concentrate. You tell yourself to relax. You will the flow to come. You focus all your attention on the task, certain that if you just try hard enough, the body will cooperate. And the body does the opposite. It tightens. The window narrows. The harder you push, the more firmly it stays shut.
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