Tag: jealousy

A Different Kind of Change If you have spent time with retroactive jealousy, you may have imagined recovery in a particular way. A moment of clarity. A sudden release. The...

Working Below the Conscious Level The previous parts of this series have established something important: retroactive jealousy is not a problem of thinking. It is a conditioned nervous system response...

When Reason Fails Most people who experience retroactive jealousy know, at some level, that their thoughts are not rational. They understand that their partner's past is not a present threat...

Something Feels Wrong, But You Cannot Explain It Your partner loves you. The relationship is good. There is no threat in the present, no reason for alarm. And yet something...

Self-Sabotage Series, article 6. How to avoid sabotaging your relationship. Trust is very important. Trust brings people in a relationship together. If trust is broken, it is very damaging, and...