There will be challenges when you decide to make the very important decision to set and enforce boundaries in your life, but the rewards will be well worth it. It is also true that many of the relationships that you are setting boundaries within, and people that you are learning to say no to, will be challenged. However, they will be redefined for the purpose of self-respect and self-preservation. Some of the challenges that may arise will be due to the fact that the people you are reinforcing your boundaries with will not be familiar with this new way of doing things. It may be the case with certain relationships that there will also be a ‘teething’ period. This should settle over time once the new boundaries have been established. Another effect you may encounter is that some relationships will be lost. On the other hand, those that survive will ultimately grow stronger.
When you get to the point at which you have established strong and clear boundaries, you will notice that others begin to give you more respect. At this point, you can truly be your authentic self and be more capable of communicating your desires without the fear of being judged. tWhere you once found yourself attracting people of a highly manipulative nature, you will now find space to replace them with respectful, loving and caring relationships.
If the new challenge of setting boundaries seems a little daunting, hypnosis and NLP can be very useful in beginning to make the changes you desire easily and effortlessly. They are especially useful to help you access the untapped resources you already possess, in order to set and maintain appropriate boundaries in all aspects of social interaction.
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