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8. The NLP Communications Model - Matthew Tweedie

September 30, 2019 Matthew Tweedie

Who doesn't want to communicate better and get their point access? I'm sure you have found yourself feeling that you are not being heard or respected at some point in your life. Perhaps you would like to connect better with people that you care for? Other times wires can end up being crossed when we communicate with people without knowing why. The reason is; believe it or not, we all live in a different reality. You are in your head, and I'm in mine. What if you could understand how people construct their reality to provide more clarity and ultimate unity? The answers to solutions you may not have thought of yet all start in understanding how you create your world through your language. The NLP communications model could be the key to communication you are looking for.

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May 18, 2026

How Hypnosis and NLP Address Retroactive Jealousy at the Root

May 18, 2026

The previous parts of this series have established something important: retroactive jealousy is not a problem of thinking. It is a conditioned nervous system response, generated through unconscious emotional learning, and maintained through a self-reinforcing loop that conscious effort cannot easily break. The approaches that are most likely to resolve it are ones that work at the level where it actually operates.

Hypnosis and NLP are tools that work in precisely that territory. They are not treatments for a disorder. They are methods for communicating with the unconscious processes that generate learned patterns, and for supporting those processes to update in a direction that serves the person better.

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May 13, 2026

Why You Cannot Think Your Way Out of Retroactive Jealousy

May 13, 2026

Most people who experience retroactive jealousy know, at some level, that their thoughts are not rational. They understand that their partner's past is not a present threat. They can list the reasons why what happened before they were part of their partner's life is irrelevant to who they are together now. The logic is not the problem.

May 13, 2026

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May 5, 2026

When the Past Will Not Stay in the Past: Understanding Retroactive Jealousy

May 5, 2026

You find yourself thinking about the people your partner was with before they knew you. The images arrive uninvited. The questions form on their own. You replay conversations you were not part of. You imagine scenes you cannot know. And the harder you try to stop, the more insistently your mind returns to the same territory.

This is what retroactive jealousy feels like from the inside. Not ordinary envy, not a passing flicker of insecurity, but something that operates almost independently of your wishes. A pattern that knows exactly how to find its way back, no matter how many times you have resolved to let it go.

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April 27, 2026

Why You Cannot Sleep: Understanding Insomnia as a Learned Nervous System Pattern

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If you are reading this at an unreasonable hour, or if you dragged yourself out of bed this morning after another night of lying awake watching the time crawl forward, this is for you. You are not failing at sleep. You are not broken. What is happening in your body and mind at night is not a sign of weakness or a flaw in your character. It is a learned pattern, and learned patterns can change.

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April 21, 2026

Breaking the Procrastination Cycle: How Hypnosis and NLP Rewire Motivation and Focus

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Practical Tools to Build Consistent Action, Achieve More Goals, and Sustain Momentum

By now, you understand that procrastination is not laziness. In Parts 1 and 2 of this series, we explored how procrastination forms as a protective emotional pattern, how fear, perfectionism, and overthinking keep people stuck, and why willpower alone rarely leads to lasting change.

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The Dopamine Loop: How the Brain Builds a Compulsion to Cheat

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If you have ever sat with the aftermath of infidelity and tried to understand how it keeps happening, you may have arrived at a question that feels both important and uncomfortable: why does something that costs so much keep feeling, in the moments before it happens, like something you cannot not do?

The answer is not found in your character. It is not found in how much you love your partner, or how seriously you take commitment, or how clearly you understand the consequences of your behaviour. The answer is found in the brain, and specifically in the way the brain's reward system builds patterns of compulsion that operate largely outside of conscious control.

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